Worrying about things we can't control is like driving around in circles and getting no where. If we can take action do what you can control and move on. If the same unwanted situations keep happening or we are trying so hard to accomplish something and keep hitting a brick wall then it's time to change your pattern. Either pattern of thinking or your pattern of actions. " Stinking thinking" is the "what if's" and " would of could of should of". Choices to change takes place everyday , live in the now and embrace the opportunities. See the opportunities because your mind is clear and in the now